Understanding and Strengthening the Mind-Body Connection
Although the mind and body are deeply interconnected, most people tend to treat them as separate.
In mental health spaces (with the exception of mindfulness and trauma-informed work), the focus tends to be on the mind. In physical health, it’s often only the body. When it comes to sustainable personal growth, overlooking that connection can limit what kind of change is possible.
What is the Mind-Body Connection?
The mind communicates through electrical activity that we interpret as thoughts and internal language. The body communicates through chemical signals we experience as sensations and emotions. Together, they shape how we experience life.
But, how?
The ways we think about ourselves, others, and the world around us (including how we find meaning and sense of identity in our experiences), are what drive our emotions and ultimately how we behave. There’s an ongoing, automatic conversation happening between our mind’s electrical signals and our body’s chemical signals at all times (Mayo Clinic). That dynamic is called the mind-body connection.
The Mind
The mind is where our internal narratives, beliefs, perceptions, opinions, values, judgments, and comparisons live. It’s where we develop an understanding of ourselves, others, and the world around us in a way that gives meaning to life. The mind enables us to think freely, be creative, solve problems, make choices, and be intentional.
Most of what our mind does actually happens outside of our awareness. In fact, it’s been estimated that we have over 60,000 thoughts each day, and about 90% of them are the same as the day before. That’s because most of our thinking runs automatically in the background of our subconscious mind.
The Body
The body is where we feel physical sensations and emotions, and use physical movement and communication to interact with the world around us.
When it comes to emotions, the body only knows what the mind tells it. This is why you can feel excited about something that hasn’t happened yet, and sad about something from your past, even though neither of those experiences are happening right now.
When you experience emotional discomfort, unwanted behavior, or automatic reactions, it’s actually always a subconscious reaction to your mindset, whether you’re fully conscious of the thoughts you were having or not.
Since the mind and body are in constant communication, creating meaningful life changes and breaking out of automatic patterns can only happen when we work with both.
Using Mindfulness to Rewire Automatic Patterns
Mindfulness is my favorite tool to deepen the mind-body connection. Mindfulness is an objective, nonjudgmental awareness of the present moment.
Using a mindfulness perspective can help you gain more insight into unwanted reactions, habits, beliefs, perceptions, and patterns by asking yourself questions like:
- What’s happening in this moment and what reactions am I noticing in response?
- What sensations am I feeling in my body?
- What emotions am I experiencing?
- What am I thinking/what meaning am I assigning to my experience? Is this perception objectively, factually true, or just familiar?
- Have I done anything with my actions during this experience that felt automatic or unintentional in any way?
And then, zoom out. With these reflections, can you see how your thoughts impact your body’s response, and how your body’s response triggers more thoughts?
As you practice exploring your mind-body connection in this way, you offer yourself the opportunity to become more intentional with how you think, behave, and relate to your emotions. The more you practice shifting into new ways of thinking, feeling, and behaving, the more your subconscious learns new ways of doing things. With consistent practice, your subconscious mind turns that learning into new automatic habits.
Change is Always Possible
As you practice building mind-body awareness, you may notice it’s often easier to pay more attention to your external circumstances as opposed to your internal thought process. For example, do you ever find yourself saying that other people or something happening in the world is causing how you feel?
If this resonates with you, try to keep in mind: it’s not your relationships, your job, your financial situation, or even what’s happening in the world that causes emotional distress or drives behavior. It’s how you perceive those things. The meaning you assign to both an experience itself, and your internal response, shape how you experience life.
I challenge you to use this concept to shift yourself into a state of empowerment, not shame or helplessness. While you can’t control your subconscious reactions or automatic thoughts, you are in complete control of how you consciously respond to them.
The beauty of the brain is that it’s capable of neuroplasticity, which means it can change its structure and function in response to learning and experiences (Encyclopedia Britannica). So, you can actually rewire those automatic processes! You can change your responses, shift your beliefs, and build new habits.
It all starts with choosing to slow down long enough to listen to how your mind and body are speaking to each other. To support you with this, I created another free resource with guided questions you can reflect on to deepen your mind-body connection.
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